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Differently Gendered
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Who is a Transgendered Person?
Definitions
Affectional (Sexual) Orientation and Gender Identity
Before and After
My Own Coming Out
Transition in the Workplace
A Response to Another Person's Musings
Contemplating the Choice of Surgery
The Difference Between Transition and the "Real Life Test"
Apprehensions About a First Meeting with a Transsexual
In Memory of Olivia Palmer
Can You Be Honest With Your Therapist?
A Dialog with Fear and Mythology
A Rant About the Michigan Womyn's Music Festival
What "Support" Means
A View of Our Community
Transgender Pride
On the Importance of Passing
More Thoughts on Passing
For Wives and Significant Others
Puberty's More Fun the Second Time Around
Our Place in Society
Bizarre Verite
The Woman Who Used to Live in the Mirror
Silly Stories About Transition
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Harry S. Benjamin Standards of Care
Dallas Denny on the Standards of Care
Powerful Women
Living with Less-Than-Perfect Passing
Gianna E. Israel Gender Library
Transsexual Pride
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Flame Retardant
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Links to other web sites
Gianna E. Israel Gender Library
FAQ for soc.support.transgendered
Recovery & Support
Recovery from Abuse
Diane's Patented Magic Flame-Retardant Elixir
The Subjective Nature of Truth
Perfectionists Anonymous
Can You Be Honest With Your Therapist?
Lessons Learned from Therapy
Bizarre Verite
A Profile in Courage
Forgiving
A Gift to an Angry Person
The Child Within
I Am an Angry Person
Time as a Non-Linear Journey Through Anger (1)
Time as a Non-Linear Journey Through Anger (2)
Leftovers of Abuse
Deprssion and Back
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Suicide Survivors' Mailing List
User Guide to alt.support.depression
Notes for Newbies
List of acronyms you may encounter in ASD
ASD Slang for Newbies
An open letter to newbies and lurkers
Coping with changes in ASD
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Flame Retardant
Dealing with depression
Working through a crash
Coming out about depression at work
The Child Within
Emotional and Verbal Abuse
Can You Be Honest With Your Therapist?
Some Lessons from Therapy
Finding a Therapist
Blackened Humor
Rants
On Predicting One's Own Obsolescence
A B Seizure
A Social Deconstruction
Unattended Children
Sympathy
Rants Against the Gods Themselves
The Despicable Art of Flaming
The Michigan Womyn's Music Festival
People Who Prey on Support Groups
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Doom
The Black Art of Programming
Object-Oriented Zen
Process? What's a "Process?"
Software Architecture
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Open Heart Programming
Conversations from the Old Programmers' Home
Justifiable Homicide
Platform Wars
Warm Fuzzies
Bizarre and Unpredictable
Dysaudia
Dream of Garnish
On Belongingness
The Meaning of Machines
Origin of Species
Holiday Movies I Intend to Miss
Stochasms (Statistical Realities)
Ancient Egyptian Objects
Lizard Eyes
A Reader Survey
Places to Avoid, and Why
Decorator Condoms
Time Portals
Selling Out
Summer Reading List
Bert and Ernie
Recalled Past
Holy Water is the Ubik of the 90's
The Twelve Chairs
Job Profile: Panty Wedger
An Odd Assortment of Humor
Mouse Balls
Spaceship Earth
Appreciation of English Spelling
DSM-IV Cyber Disorders
Piano as Roadworthy Vehicle
How Not to Get a Job
The Anti-Christ Particle
Monk Gloats Over Yoga Championship
Bumper Stickers and T-Shirts
What HaHa
Cat Ailments
Why Did the Chicken Cross the Road?
Heterosexual Questionnaire
Ineffective Daily Affirmations
Managed Friendship
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The talk.bizarre FAQ
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Quotable Diane
Strange Tales
Fiction
Left Brain, Bereft Brain
The Woman Who Used to Live in the Mirror
The Blood of the Covenant
One Small Step on the Road to Damascus
We Have Met the Alien
Paying Up for Jimmy
The Second Battle of Pea Ridge
By the Pond
A Shadow of Herself (1)
A Shadow of Herself (2)
Writing About Writing
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The Turkey City Lexicon
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The Secret Lives of Iris, II
The Secret Lives of Iris, III
The Secret Lives of Iris, IV
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Coping with the Standards of Care
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Are Therapists Trustable?
Coping with the Holidays
Child Custody Issues for the Transgender Parent
Stealth or Purge: Returning to the Closet
Beating Up Bullies!
Asking Questions
Community and Interpersonal Differences
Crossed Out!
Starting Transition
Riding the Bus
A Grandfather's Dilemma
Common Law Change of Name
Unsolicited Attention
Competitiveness
A Healthy Sex Drive
Closeted Forever?
TG Therapy Blunders
Relief for Transgenders
First Romantic Date
Hormones? Maybe Later
Transgender Equality
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Remaining Friends
First-Time Speaker
Insurance-Funded Genital Reassignment Surgery
Childhood and Gender Identity Developmental Repressive Abuse
Transgender Issues and Depression
"Closeted" for 40 Years?
Support Groups: An Integral Transgender Resource
A Parent's Dilemma: the Transgender Child
Frequent Professional Suggestions
Transgenderists: When Self-Identification Challenges Transgender Stereotypes
First Time Hormones Visits
Fantasy
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Being Your Own Star!
Guilt
Talking with your Children about Gender Identity Issues
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